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| If You Love, You Are Someone
Everyone wants to be important; I guess it's a universal desire to want to be "someone". But you don't have to be a millionaire, you don't have to be elected to public office, you don't have to be glamorous or muscular, you don't have to be a war hero! If you love, you are someone! If you care for other people and do your best to be a contributing member of the society, if your liking shines through other people's mistakes and weaknesses-even their occasional hypocrisy-you are someone and people will give you recognition for something that is increasingly becoming all too rare in this world. Love is a lord of truth and loyalty. Someday people will stop talking about sex and go back to talking about love. I would love to have a forum with you...someone---Mary
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| You're as Beautiful as You feel...Someone
And you women, be yourself! You don't have to look like Angelina Jolie, you don't have to have a perfect figure, and you don't have to act sophisticated or phony. If you're neat and make the most of your physical traits, if you're genuine, if you do your best to fulfill your responsibilities, you'll get along. And, if you feel sisterly compassion for others, people will love you for it. Remember this absolute truth: If you feel beautiful, you are beautiful...be someone, and no one can take it away from you unless you renounce the power of your own happy feelings.
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| Finding the one you love....
by Michelle I met a man, a man I thought was only part of a dream. One day i was at my lowest point in my life and felt as if i just could not go on. My life was my friends online. I had my car packed full of my belongings i was going away but i didn't know where i just felt so alone and knew this place was not the place i needed to call home. I was saying goodbye to all my friends that i had made online. I accidently went into a chat room, something i never did there was one person sitting in this room they seemed to be lost and was'nt sure what to do so i said "hello" he responded in saying "hello" back we began talking and sharing where we lived. I don't know why but i paused and i thought i know this person thier soul speaks to mine like something familiar. It wasn't long before others began filling up in the chat room and i politely excused myself. I wanted to contine our talk but a woman began speaking to him and i felt he wanted to get to know her so i backed away and left the room. As i signed off line i felt this burning need to speak to this man again. Each day i'd watch him go off and on the internet without saying a word to him. Hoping he'd make the first move and speak to me. But little did i know the day we met this was his very first time on the internet and did'nt know how to contact me. A week went by i finally got the courage to say "hello" again. That afternoon we talked for over 6 hours non- stop. It was like a river of love had opened up for us both. We had, had a lifetime of being apart and had so much to share with one another. We shared many nights talking 11-12 hours and then phoning each other. Our love continued and grew stronger and stronger as the days went by. We prayed and hoped that we could be together very soon, but that day never came for us. A year went by and we were no closer to building our life together than when we first started. The pressure of waiting of praying of hoping eventually tore this love to shreds. I tried so hard to love him for the rest of my days i felt in my soul that god had placed this man in my life for a reason. I loved him so much and he returned his love to me. I was afraid of living my life away from him, i began to become angry and scared. So in the depths of my soul i told the only man i ever loved that i needed to leave him. This waiting was killing us both and we both knew it was near to impossible for us to ever be together. You see we live almost 10,000 miles away from each other. Our love could cross all boundries but not an ocean. I love him with all my heart but i knew that if i didn't make the move to go on then we could be stuck in this love of torture for the rest of our lives. He hurt so badly we cried i knew i had given up my soulmate, the person god had chosen me to be with in heaven and on earth. The lonliness was almost deafening, the pain was too real to deal with any longer. Our love could not with hold anymore i felt him slipping away. I did the one and only thing i thought i could do to save our love,or what was left to save. I will always love him and we will always be connected by our love. But for now i have moved on and am now in a relationship with a man ive tried to replace the pain in my heart. He loves me completely, but my love can never be complete because i left my heart with my soulmate. The only man i will ever love.......
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| HE IS THE ONE
by Nicki HIndley Im 17, over 18 months ago i met my boyfriend Daniel, he had been very ill and was just recoverng and doing his gcse`s. Now ok im 17 and hes nearly 18 and we`re young but one things for sure we are in love and no-one can tell me diffrently. Danny is off to university in sept/oct and im going to miss him like crazy but we will get through it, i know that. I did have my doubts but come on, if we`re meant to be we will be. I wanted to write this story to tell people that you dont have to be a certain age to be in love and that being miles away from one another can only make you stronger, We do so many things toghter but we also have our own lives, i have college and im a singer so my music takes alot of my time. But he supports me and i support him. My best friend have time for one another and we have our relationship but ive always got time for Danny. Danny if you read this "I LOVE YOU" All my love NICKI xxx
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| LOVE ONLINE
by megan Hi I was one of those people who thought that, cyber romance was just ridiculous. Well I have been talking to this man now for 3 months and we laugh together argue just like a real couple. I really have gotten know him better than if it was in person cause we are so honest with one another. I haven't met him yet but I am planning on it soon. So keep a open mind cause u never know what might happen or how love might find u.
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| When Do You Know If It's True Love
True Love... by Anna Let your sweetheart know those special words of love that you have in your heart. True love once stroke down your heart, touches you forever. It’s all about loving someone for what they are and not by changing them. Have a glance at these touching phrases that will bring a feeling of warmth in you True love is the foundation of integrity, honesty and worship between two individuals. Dearth of any of this pillar may perhaps lead to maladjustment in a relation. True love has prevailed over self-centeredness, egocentricity and bodily desires. It is a feeling of serenity and completeness that gives a reason to live not for one’s own self but for someone else. True love seeks no condition or wish fulfillment. A person in true love learns to forfeit and not hunt for his own benefit. It is not about yearning to get married to your love but to watch him or her getting married to the person they love. It is entirely committed to the welfare of the other. True love cannot be experienced by each and everyone on this earth. All of us fall in love with a particular person in our life but very less could actually get united. But there is yet more lack of strong hearts in this world who can sacrifice their love with a beam on their face. The world seems to be tired, upset, secluded and thwarted. A human soul could be utterly fatigued with the long-laden melancholy of life and the reason is the lack of love which is the major strength of human being to stay alive. Why should we want to live tomorrow? It is for the divine love that gives us a motive to breathe today. We want to live forever because of that love we are bestowed with by our loved ones. We want to be loved by him or her today, tomorrow and forever. We want to live because there is someone who loves us, someone we wish to see whenever we’ll open our eyes as well as love him or her back. True love is all about loving someone just because they are themselves and not their actions and values. True love never asks for any amendment of your traits but accepts you as you are along with your positive and negative attributes. Being in true love is such a divine feeling where you will unsurprisingly lay down your own comfort for the safety and happiness of your love. True love doesn’t yearn for reciprocation from your love. It is a strength in itself that gives you selfless valor even at the weakest end of your life. True love is also termed as unconditional love which is a strong bond between lovers or spouses which is claimed to be at a much higher point than bodily desires. Some symptoms confirm that you are in True Love. A simple smile on your lover’s face will take you to ecstasy. You are not bothered about anyone who is attracted to you; you’ll have only one yearning to rest in your lover’s arms, no matter how hard your day has gone but just a thought of your lover will bring an elated smile on your face, irrespective of all the flaws in your lover, they’ll seem to be the perfect human to you. True love is all about making sacrifices and giving yourself completely without any expectation. Finding and keeping love is not just a romantic idea; it is crucial for our survival. No human can continue to exist without love. It is the heart of a human body at the arrest of which one will be lost in the realm of isolation. A person will not expire if he is deprived of love but will live the life of a deceased. Love is god’s most wondrous gift man has ever received. True love is not about spending some moments with your love, it’s not about lending an ear to what others say about both of you; it’s not about asking for the anything in return. True love happens when you feel that your life is miserable and meaningless with that person, when you feel distressed and lonely not because you miss your love but because you are worried whether your love is in need of you. True love is always getting involved in a physical attachment but experience an overwhelming feeling of pure bliss when the two of you will kiss. You will agree to give up everything without moaning just to see an everlasting smile on your lover’s face. You sense a feeling of joy with the thought of doing something for your love. When true love happens you will want to hold your love in your arms for all the eternity, your lips will be locked forever in your warm instances and you’ll wish that your time with your love never ends.
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| How to Sustain a Long Distance Relationship?
There are lots of things that one must do and lots that one must not do in order to sustain a long-distance relationship. Please feel free to post your comments
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| If you Love
i think if you really love someone show your love for all people know anymore your love and lover must be spoild for your love must be proud for your love SHOW YOUR LOVE IF YOU ARE REALLY LOVE SOMEONE
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| To Mary With Love
I sleep with thee, and wake with thee, And yet thou art not there; I fill my arms with thoughts of thee, And press the common air. Thy eyes are gazing upon mine When thou art out of sight; My lips are always touching thine At morning, noon, and night. I think and speak of other things To keep my mind at rest, But still to thee my memory clings Like love in woman's breast. I hide it from the world's wide eye And think and speak contrary, But soft the wind comes from the sky And whispers tales of Mary. The night-wind whispers in my ear, The moon shines on my face; The burden still of chilling fear I find in every place. The breeze is whispering in the bush, And the leaves fall from the tree, All sighing on, and will not hush, Some pleasant tales of thee...JOHN
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| LET ME LOVE YOU
Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy agreed. When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hardwork and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company... "You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!" One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realise those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life! Before the guy can realize, the couple was walking towards a cemetary, and he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his precious papercranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him. She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again. “The End." A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to. Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.
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| I DO HOPE WE COULD STAY IN LOVE FOR A LONG TIME
Dear Carol, We've been together for quite sometime now and I am so greatful to have you as my partner. You have thought me things that I never knew. You made me realize that love can be very patient and understanding. Despite of my hung ups, crankiness and mood swings, you still loved me unconditionally. You made me realize that what we have is not just a relationship, but a commitment. Thank you for taking good care of me and making me feel special. I know there is no such thing as forever, but I do hope we could stay in love for a long time and our feelings for each other will never change. I love you babe.. Alex
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| EVEN FOR I THINK YOU DON'T
To My Beloved,Letty I wanna let you know how grateful I am to the hours that you spent with me at the phone even for I think you don't knew me at all. That's one of my most cherished moments in my entire life. For the minutes that we share our stories through the phone, the only minutes that I was able to hear your voice, my heart beat to the fastest and you know, I can't breath. "A STRANGER SMILE AT ME, THAT HAS A MEANING OR NONE AT ALL. BUT THAT SMILE STARTS ME TO FALL." That's our story, but I'm pretty sure that not just a simple smile. Those seconds that you're looking at me, that was nothing for me, but a day past and I search for you, and I don't fail. I have that much source that I got even your phone number. From that day on, now and forevermore, I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU.... Mark
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| Never Have I Fallen
Your lips speak soft sweetness Your touch a cool caress I am lost in your magic My heart beats within your chest I think of you each morning And dream of you each night I think of your arms being around me And cannot express my delight Never have I fallen But I am quickly on my way You hold a heart in your hands That has never before been given away By: Rex
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| Why Peoples Need Lies And Hurt Peoples...?
I wanna only learn why peoplesss says lies words and everytime wanna convince a one ? Why online very easy Why peoples dont knows they are only a human and if what doing here easy can see its actions on he is family Why everybody think online girl very easy and think very easy can have online girl. What you want to online. a people why enter to online , and who enter online.? Pls think for me Hi i am Deniz , and i wanna little share my think with you Maybe i am wrong this ideas but pls forgive me for thats. I enter this sites 3-4 mounth ago. First i saw a woman here . She is Mary we are grup leader. I fall in she is eyes and she is heart. May everybody know i am very love her and i am good know she is love me. Again i meet online for her.And i am life very disappointment for online. Because i dont know this online very bad very wrong. *** Then who doing bad Online..? Only we are mysellf doing bad . Because we are can easy says lies words. we are easy can doing bad actions. And these very big reason for Online be Bad. But remember pls Tecnologhy very big advantage for peoples if we are used it truly. i wanna to tell little example. 1. In the world all caountry have very big problem. priwate unemployment. But here everyone a doctor a engineer a teacher……. and very big job. Then all caountry president says lier ,because if he is research this sites easy can saw he is caountry have very big work man. )) joke why we are dont wrote real job ? 2. For Enjoy very man and woman says very lies word easy can convince a girl or a boy ''I SAW A OLD MAN SAYS FOR A YOUNG GIRL I LOVE YOU '' Maybe really but how you can love a young girl ???? how you give a young girl big hopes ??? How you can easy BREAK Fresh Flowers????? 3. Sex not important for a peoples on online . For sex For little enjoy very peoples Hurt very peoples . What You Wins with WEBCAM SEX.????? Very peoples (priwate mans) open webcam Half Naked . You dont think only you are not have a body all people all man have a body beauty or ugly . You can travel near family Half naked . And Dont forget if you showed your body a Foreigner on online maybe your Sister or your MOM or your DAUGHTER doing it for a Foreigner .Same Like You. 4 . All peoples says i have GOD . But i saw Very people dont afraid to GOD or on online forget him . A STORY : i am MOSLIM and i have ALLAH and my prophet Hz.MUHAMMED (S.A.S) A day a my prophet friend ask to a questions : Why ALLAH dont give punishment to lies peoples or who doing bad actions ? My prophet answer : If ALLAH give punishment who doing lies or doing bad actions Now on the World Strong man does not stay But in the other world Big punishment wait for them. PLS BE GOOD PEOPLE FOR OTHER PEOPLES . FOR LITTLE ENJOY DONT BREAK DONT HURT OTHER PEOPLE AND BE RESPECT FOR OTHER PEOPLE MAYBE ONLINE ALL LIES YOU ARE CANNOT SEE THIS FRIEND IN THE REAL LIFE BUT KNOW PLS HERE WITH YOUR WORDS CAN EASY HURTING A PEOPLE NOTICE : Pls Forgive m efor my bad english and bad GRAMMER And I LOVE YOU MARY EVEN IF WE ARE CANNOT REACH CANNOT MARRIED KNOW PLS YOU ARE ALWAYS IN THE MY HEART SORRY I DONT SAYS FRIEND BECAUSE HERE VERY FRIENDSHIP LIES. ATLEAST I DONT BELIVE ON ONLINE. ALL PEOPLE THANKS FOR LISTEN ME AND READ MY MESAGGE TAKE CARE AND HAVE A GOOD LIFE
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| REAL FRIEND & REAL LOVE
hı all. When a people call someone as a friend , he must trust whom with all heart and save at reqired time. Being friend is not easy. Friendship does not occur by saying hello or comment.Even online friendship. Net has got bad and good peoples. But these r not same. Never compare them eachother. U must be blinked if u don't know that never leave them for pleasure. A girl does not love u even not friend with u whereas u don't reach her , never talk bad about her. Especially that means for another girl. I typed them foolish because nobody care thinks just looking pictures. Thatswhy injure someone. That is pitty for huminity. Sad people who u injured might be lover , friend or someone's sister. Do u wanna your sister injures by someone? Just listen your heart and choose what u must do. Just love eachother without own wants.
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| AND.....
someone can hurt by what ı wrote on upside.my aim is not to injure u.excuise me if ı wrote wrong but ı wanna share my thinks.THANK YOU----By.Denni
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| You Don't Have To Be a Superman
Many men have encountered problem of adjustment in terms of their masculinity. Young men sometimes feels that he must be a "superman." As a result, he develops the shakes when hospitalized and, when married, gets into all kinds of fights with his wife because he must keep proving what a great, big man he is. He is all around you. So many men today feel that they must be all-powerful, immune to hurt, stoical. They imprison their soft feelings, crush other people to prove they're men and make life--which, God knows, is difficult enough -- just a little harder for other people. And, they torture themselves if they're not just as brave as a private eye they've see on TV or a cowboy they've seen in a Hollywood movie. If you, reading this, feel like this, let me help you relax and enjoy yourself...please. It's so simple! Just remember that you were once a little boy who cried when you skinned your knee. Just remember that you're a man and you don't have to prove it all the time, sexually or any other way. Just stop trying to be a superman. You'll feel so much better.--Mary
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| Inspiring Someone
May you find serenity and tranquility in a world you may not always understand. May the pain you have known and the conflict you have experienced give you the strength to walk through life facing each new situation with courage and optimism. Always know that there are those whose love and understanding will always be there, even when you feel most alone. May you discover enough goodness in others to believe in a world of peace. May a kind word, a reassuring touch, and a warm smile be yours every day of your life, and may you give these gifts as well as receive them. Remember the sunshine when the storm seems unending. Teach love to those who hate, and let that love embrace you as you go out into the world. May the teachings of those you admire become part of you, so that you may call upon them. Remember, those whose lives you have touched and whose have touched yours are always a part of you, even if the encounters were less than you would have wished. It is the content of the encounter that is more important than the form. May you not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart. Find time each day to see beauty and love in the world around you. Realize that each person has limitless abilities, but each of us is different in our own way. What you feel you lack in the present may become one of your strengths in the future. May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth by yourself, and not be dependent on another's judgment of your accomplishments. May you always feel loved. --Mary Heart--
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| How to Know if You Will Marry Your Boyfriend
Is he the right one for you? Keep your eyes open for signs that will let you know if you'll marry your boyfriend. Examine your conversations. Does he include you in his plans when he talks about the future? Consider whether you're both traveling along the same pathway in life. Are you heading in the same direction? Do you share common interests and values? Think about the compatibility of your goals. Do you both want the same things out of life, such as a family, kids, stability, money, careers? Are you interested in his work and hobbies? Does he seem interested in your job and pastimes, even if he doesn't share your passion for them? Evaluate how he treats you in private and in public. Does he brag about you to others? Does he seem proud to be with you, or does he avoid being seen with you in public places? Does he stick around when you're having a bad day, or does he disappear when you need him the most? Evaluate how he treats your friends and family. Is he willing to be nice to your friends and family, even if he doesn't like them? Assess his honesty and trustworthiness. Does he do what he says he's going to do? Do you feel you can trust him and depend on him? Think about all the reasons why you really like him. Remember that lust fades, but genuine compatibility endures. Communicate with your boyfriend and discuss these issues to figure out if you're both meant for each other. TIPS & WARNING If he acts secretive or ashamed to be seen with you in public, re-evaluate your relationship. He may be trying to hide something from you. Since every relationship is different, it does not guarantee that you'll marry your boyfriend by following these steps! -by ehow-
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| How to Say "I Love You"
Ready to take the plunge and introduce that most romantic phrase into your relationship's dialogue? Saying "I love you" for the first time is a big step; learn how to say I love you to your significant other. Decide if you do, indeed, love your mate. Most partners can see through a halfhearted 'love ya' - which won't do your relationship any good. Consider the possibility that your partner might not respond with the hoped-for 'I love you, too.' If you can handle that and still want to express your love, go for it. If you can't, then consider holding off until either you're certain your partner will respond as hoped or you're OK with it if he or she doesn't. Think about how you'd like to let your partner know the way you feel, keeping in mind that uttering those words may give birth to a life long memory. If spontaneity works for you, wait for the perfect moment. If you're more methodical, consider writing a love letter first, then telling your mate in person the next time you get together. If you decide in advance when to reveal your love, plan a special evening around it. Such relationship milestones warrant celebration. When you tell your partner you love him or her, do so while making total eye contact, and while you are holding each other. This gives the moment the intimacy it deserves. TIPS&WARNING: Avoid saying the 'L' word for the first time in the heat of passion - your partner may doubt the sincerity of your proclamation. COMMENTS: Don't forget what it means - Don't say I love you too early in the relationship. Don't say it to get sexually involved. And never ever ever ... I repeat ... NEVER say it unless you mean it with all your heart.-By EHOW -Variate a little - Instead of just saying "I love you," change it a little. Try "I love how you..." "Do you know how much I love you?" "I love you with all my heart." "I love all your faults and strengths." This will let them know it comes from YOU, not a formula.-By Jen -Actions speak louder than words - Write "I love you" on the bathroom mirror while your mate is in the shower. Have a warm towel fresh from the dryer waiting when they get out. Give them a full-body massage, and watch the fireworks fly!-By Tony -Love finds it's own way - Remember, nothing else matters other than trust. When you love someone, you don't have to decide or wait, for when it's true you just know. So when you say I love you, make these 3 words the beginning and the end, the dawn and the dusk, and nothing else should be on your mind. If it's true, your feelings will be reciprocated.-by Akshat S. A tiny bit more - There is a valid point in saying that "I love you" has lost meaning. Add an adjective or adverb. "I truly love you" or "I love you unconditionally" are two nice examples. The first time you say you love someone should be simple. The next time the mood suits you is a better time to be poetic. Add whole phrases like "I love you more than I can fathom with words" if you're feeling creative. Don't be afraid to be sappy or funny, just be yourself, be the person that your special someone fell in love with.-by eHow -Show you've thought about it - Don't just say it, tell them why you love them. If you want to hear it back, you're saying it for the wrong reason - if you're giving someone your heart, give it unconditionally. We were in bed, just talking in the early hours of the morning. We were close, I was making swirly patterns on her hand with my fingertips. The moment was tender and quiet and I wanted it to come out of the blue. I think I said something like this: "When we first kissed, I had this excited, thrilled feeling inside that felt like my heart was being squeezed. Well, it still happens every time. The more I think about our time together - the way we laugh and talk and even the times when we enjoy silence together - I think about how good you have been for me and how hard I find it to imagine things without you. I need to tell you this or I'll think I'll burst! Please don't feel I need to hear an answer back, but the fact is: I love you." For flip's sake, look them in the eyes and enjoy the silence after you say it - it's your moment, too. It was such a big release and I felt better for having waited until I was sure. Her response? "Why are you crying?"-by eHow -Learn what means "love" to them - Take a few moments and ask your beloved "What makes you feel loved?", then listen carefully to their answer. e.g. If "love" to them means taking time with just them, clear your afternoon and spend it with your special someone Actions speak volumes!-by Anna -As many times as you feel it - It doesn't matter if you just said "I love you" to her. If you feel it from the bottom of your heart, say it again. Let her know that you'll never be tired of saying it, and you'll never be bored loving her.-by Jose Antonio
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| Why A Man Gets 'Scared Away' When You Try To...
...Get Him To Commit For The Long-Term- And What To Do About It..." Dear Friend, I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them... Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt? You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him? In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you. Another one... Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen? Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway. And finally: Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after? You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you. I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like: "He's just a jerk, forget about him". Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you. And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it. In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk). In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently... Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right. Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation. You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do... Christian C.
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| The Secret To Attracting And Keeping A Great Guy..
The Secret To Attracting And Keeping A Great Guy... The main PROBLEM here, and the thing that stood in your way, is that men aren't easy to understand. And when you find a good man, he doesn't come with an "instruction manual". Just because your girlfriends told you it wasn't your fault, or that he was just "a jerk", doesn't mean that they understood the problem (or that they understand men at all, for that matter). Most women don't "get" men. Your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions. They're just trying to make you feel better. But they're also accidentally making the situation WORSE. They're trying to blame the situation on HIM, instead of trying to help YOU understand how to KEEP a great guy around. This situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you don't know how to catch him or keep him. Let's face it, great guys are hard to find... and when you do find one, you can't afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake. You can't afford to throw away a good six months, a year... or even LONGER... and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship... just because you didn't know how to handle a particular situation. Well, there is some good news here... I personally believe that there IS something you can do about it. You CAN learn how to understand men and get them to be open up and understand you. You can learn how to CATCH that great guy, and how to KEEP him. And how do I know this? Because I AM a guy. And I've been in all the situations I just mentioned to you... from the OTHER side. I've seen it from a man's perspective. I've been in those difficult "places" in dating, relationships, and love. After years and years of experiencing these types of situations and hearing about them from my female friends, I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT... I spent well over a year carefully documenting and writing about my experiences. I spent much of that time researching, interviewing women, and working out all the ways a woman can get what she wants out of a relationship without scaring off the man she loves... and without letting any of those confusing "guy issues" get in the way. By: Christian C.
| 2 | 0 | When: 7/08 11:22a
In: Your "Secret Weapon"..
By: IHACKED MARYHEART |
| The Secrets Men WISH You Knew- But Don't Know How
... To Tell You... Have you ever read a romance novel about a strong-willed woman who met a tough, "dangerous" alpha-male man... and over the course of the story, she "tamed" him and won him over... and made him fall completely and helplessly in love with her... to the point where he wanted to be with her FOREVER? By: Jcs
| 2 | 0 | When: 7/09 12:18a
In: The KEY...
By: IHACKED MARYHEART |
| How to Compliment a Woman Who Catches Your Eye
You spot an intriguing woman and must establish contact or live with regret the rest of the day. How do you compliment her without appearing too aggressive? Or worse, tasteless? Mary Heart
| 3 | 1 | When: 7/09 2:40a
In: How To Get A Man's A..
By: IHACKED MARYHEART |
| How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to...
How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet.--Mary Heart-- FEEL FREE TO SHARE YOUR REACTIONS,COMMENTS, IDEAS OR SUGGESTIONS...WHO KNOWS YOU MIGHT INSPIRES SOMEONE.
| 2 | 0 | When: 7/09 2:16a
In: HOW YOUR EMOTIONS CA..
By: IHACKED MARYHEART |
| Have you dreamed of falling in love with someone?
Share,comment,post your dreams about falling in with someone like him/her.
| 1 | 0 | When: 8/19 8:13p
In: Dream of Falling in..
By: IHACKED MARYHEART |
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