|
| Videos: How to Create a Friendship in 60 Seconds
| View All
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
|
| Forums | Topics | Replies | Last Post | 
| كيف تسعد رجلا وكيف تسعد امراة
كيف يسعد الرجلالمرأة : على الرجل أن يكون 1. صديق 2.رفيق 3. حبيب 4. أخ 5. أب 6. سيد 7. رئيس 8. كهربائي 9. نجار 10. سباك 11. ميكانيكي 12. مصمم ديكور 13. صاحبأسلوب 14. طبيب نفسي 15. مبيد حشرات 16. طبيب معالج 17. مستمع 18. مرتب 19. نظيف جدا 20. عاطفي 21. رياضي 22. دافئ 23. يقظومتنبه 24. أنيق 25. ذكي 26. مرح 27. مبدع 28. حساس 29. قوي 30. يتفهم 31. يتحمل 32. متعقل 33. طموح 34. قادر ومؤهل 35. شجاع 36. مصمم 37. صادق 38. يعتمد عليه 39. يمدحها بانتظام 40. يحبالتسوق 41. محترم 42. غني جدا 43. لا يرفع ضغطها 44. لا ينظر لغيرها من البنات كيف تسعد المرأة الرجل : 1. تتركه في حاله
| 0 | 0 | N/A
|
| كيف تكون صديقا حقيقيا..
هل لك أصدقاء ؟ سؤال لو وجهته لمجموعة من الناس لكانت الإجابة بنعم حتى الأطفال منهم ستكون إجابتهم (نعم) ، ولكن ، من هو صديقك ؟ هل هو من ساعدك يوماً ما ؟ أم من استمع إليك في وقت كنت فيه في أمسّ الحاجة إليه أم يا ترى هو من شاركك أفراحك وأحزانك ؟. كل هذه الأمور جيدة ولا تصدر إلا من صديق ، ولكن مع كثرة من حولك لم تعد تميز من هو صديقك ؟ ومن هو زميلك؟ بشرط أن تكون أنت أحد الذين يستحقون حمل هذا الوسام الذي يحمل في طياته أقدس معنى ينشده البشر ألا وهو الصدق. والحاجة إلى صديق حاجة نفسية ضرورية في حياة الإنسان ، إذ أن الإنسان اجتماعي بطبعه يسعى إلى إقامة العلاقات الإنسانية السوية ، التي تحقق الغرض من وجوده ، ومهما علا الإنسان وارتفعت مكانته يبقى ضعيفاً إذا اكتفى بنفسه دون الآخرين ، فهو في حاجة دائمة إلى من يسمع إليه ، يشكوه همه ، ويخفف أحزانه ، وفي الوقت ذاته يجب أن يتحمل مسؤولية هذه الصداقة ، ويكون عوناً لمن يصادقه وبذلك تستمر الحياة وتنشأ العلاقات السوية، والمجتمعات ذات العلاقات الإنسانية الراقية. ولكي تصبح أهلاً لهذه الصداقة فمن الواجب عليك كصديق أن تستمع لصديقك بقلبك وعقلك وتساعده على اجتياز أحزانه وتوجهه إلى الطريق الصحيح لمواجهة الواقع ، ومن الواجب عليك أيضاً أن تحرص على انتقاء الكلمة التي تزيده فرحاً وترسم الابتسامة على وجهه ، ترعى مشاعره ، وتقدره ورأس الأمور كلها أن تحفظ سره فهو من اختارك من بين الناس صديقاً له فهل تكافـئه بأن تكون أول من تفضحه ؟! وينبغي أن تظهر الصداقة الحقة في مراعاتك له بكل أحاسيسك ومحاولاتك للتخفيف عنه وإن كنت حاملاً لهم أكبر من همه ، وألا تبرز فرحك في وقت حزنه. كن أنت اليد الأمنية والقوية التي تعينه على النهوض مرة أخرى و إن أظهر غضبه وتكدره ولتذكر الخير منه ترَ نفسك راضي النفس غير حانق، وللسلف الصالح في الأصدقاء أقوال ومنها قول أحدهم : ( لا تدم مودتك لأخ حتى تكون إذا أضناه الألم ضويت معه ، وإذا عضّه الجوع خويت أنت ، إذا مسه الضر لم تعرف كيف تبيت ليلتك
| 0 | 0 | N/A
|
| Making Friends
Making Friends Making new friends can be exciting or intimidating, depending on your personality and your circumstances, but ultimately it is rewarding. To meet new people who might become your friends, you have to go to places where others are gathered. The hardest thing about going out and doing anything in the community is doing it for the first time. It's hard for everyone. Push through those hard feelings and go. Most of the time, you will be glad you did. Don't limit yourself to one idea or strategy for meeting people. The broader your effort, the greater your likelihood of success. Try several of these ideas: Attend a support group. Support groups are a great way to make new friends. It could be a group for people who have similar health issues or life challenges, or a group for people of the same age or sex. Go to community activities like sporting events, theatrical productions, concerts, art shows, poetry readings, book signings, civic groups, special interest groups, and political meetings. Take a course or join a church. Let yourself be seen and known in the community. If money is a problem, consider going to your local library and looking in the newspaper for listings of free events. Spend time in places that are free, like a local bookstore with couches where you can sit and read for a while. You will have a feeling of connection even without any dialogue with others. Volunteer. Strong connections often are formed when people work together on projects of mutual concern. When volunteering, you are already with a group of people with a common interest. You could help out at a soup kitchen, read to children in day care, visit people in nursing homes, deliver flowers in the hospital, or serve on a political or social action committee. You could bring snacks for the other volunteers and arrange a time to get together and eat with them for more social contact. Activity: Think about places where you have made friends in the past. Check your newspaper for community events and support groups. Which ones sound appealing to you? Make a commitment to go to at least one of these events or groups. Note: Some people use chat groups and other connections on the Internet as a way to make friends and to relieve loneliness. While this can be a good short-term way to connect with others, avoid sharing personal information and your phone and address with people you do not know well or whom you have not met in person. Reaching out to establish a friendship sometimes happens simply and casually. At other times, it takes special effort. If you feel you need and want to take some action so a person you have met becomes a friend, you could — ask the person to join you at a cafe for coffee or lunch, to go for a walk, or to engage in some other activity with you call the person on the phone to share a piece of good news you think they might be intereted in send a short, friendly e-mail and see if they respond chat with them about something of interest to both of you offer to help the person with a particular task if you think it would be appreciated Even window-shopping with another person can be good, especially if there is a theme, even humorous, like "I'm going to find something in the window I could wear to a Halloween party." A woman in the focus group said she went window-shopping with a friend. They tried on lots of clothes that they'd buy if they had the money, and it was great fun. Test the waters by proceeding slowly. As you both enjoy each other more, the friendship deepens. Notice how you feel about yourself when you are with the other person. If you feel good about yourself, you may be on the road to a fulfilling friendship. If you have never had a close friend, you may have a hard time knowing when to take action that will allow the friendship to deepen. A friendship may be starting to get closer if you are feeling more comfortable with that person, you feel content and at ease when the two of you are together, and you feel disappointed when you and the other person can't get together, but you don't "fall apart." You can be aware of how the other person is feeling when they are with you by listening closely to what they are saying, by noticing their body language and responses, and by asking them. Don't overwhelm the person with phone calls or other kinds of contact. Use your intuition and common sense to determine when to call and how often. Don't ever call late at night or early in the morning until you both have agreed to be available to each other in emergencies (for example, one of you is sick or has gotten some very bad news). Activity: Think of a time when someone called you too often or disturbed you when you were sleeping. How did it make you feel?
| 1 | 0 | When: 11/06 5:27a
In: How to Create a Frie..
By: amro morsliny |
| How to Socialize, Be Funny and Make Friends
[edit] StepsJust be yourself. Don't be afraid to express your opinions. If someone insults you, just ignore them - they have no idea what they're talking about! Be Optimistic. Even if you are feeling really down, remember that there's always something out there to smile about. A positive outlook will make people want to be around you more. Crack a joke. Having a sense of humor is important, but don't get too carried away, there are some things you have to be serious about. Smile as much as you can. Signs of encouragement let people know you care about what they are saying. Share interesting/silly ideas. Your thoughts can open up many doors that can lead to friendship. Listen more than you talk. Instead of nodding and smiling and occasionally wiping the drool off your face, try to take what the person says and run with it. Add your own thoughts into the mix - but don't hijack the conversation. Start by doing little things if you are very reserved. For example, every time you go to school, work, or wherever, say hello to one person and have a one-on-one conversation with them. Say "hello" to those that don't talk much. Share something about yourself, such as where you're going or why you're there. Avoid talking about the weather - as Tom Waits says, "Strangers talk about the weather." Try to compliment them. Don't expect perfection out of anyone, especially yourself. For example, if you forget your own name while introducing yourself, just make fun of the situation. Be Patient. If you are still among strangers, the apprehension of a conversation may cause a delay in comments. Don't worry, that will go away in short order. Talk to older people, maybe even your own folks. They will be less likely to ridicule you, therefore making it easier to learn to talk well. Place importance on making social contacts. The people who are considered popular may not be the sharpest tacks in the box, but they are acquainting with important people who may contribute to their future careers. It is never too late to feel that being popular is important. If your work environment allows for it, host a party, organize a sports game, etc. Love yourself. It is difficult to like others when you do not appreciate yourself for who you are. Try exercise to improve your self-esteem. Start your journey to "self-discovery." Be loyal. Little things count. If you make an appointment, be on time. If you're in a group, show up early, and stay late (even if you don't have anything to say at the moment). Be nice to others. Always give compliments, but don't try too hard. If you are shy, take a deep breath and risk it - you never know what might happen. Also, crack a joke every once in a while. Again, if you are shy on the outside but a little crazy on the inside, let it out once in a while. Wear your hair up high and spin around or dance. Others will laugh and find you fun and funny to be with. Stand up for your rights. When someone is being too hard on you or perhaps showing signs of prejudice, speak up! Let it out in the open: "Is there any reason to make you prejudiced?" Be honest. Lying will make people not want to be your friend any more.
| 0 | 0 | N/A
|
| الصداقة الحميمة بين الرجل و المرأة
هل يوجد فعلا صداقة حميمة بين الرجل و المرأة بالمعنى الصحيح للصداقة بدون اغراض شخصية و بدون الاشياء الاخرى صداقة بالمعنى الحقيقى للصداقة ؟
| 0 | 0 | N/A
|
| الرومانسية
هل توجد رومانسية حقيقية؟؟؟؟ بمعنى هل تغنى الوردة الحمراء عن كل قصائد الشعر الكاذب؟ و هل تغنى لمسة اليد عن اعنف الليالى الحمراء؟ و هل يغنى الدبدوب الفرو عن اغلى ماسة فى العالم ؟ اين هى هذه الرومانسية فى هذا الزمن ؟ و هل يوجد امرأة تفهمها و تشعر بها
| 0 | 0 | N/A
|
|
|
|
| |
|
